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Mitchell Pluto
05/30/2025
5 min
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Shadows of Lovers, The Erotic Photography of Mateo De La Rioja (An Interview)

05/30/2025
5 min
2

Mateo De la Rioja, a photographer from Canada, strives to freeze private moments in time through his photography. This interview unveils his perspectives on crafting sensual atmospheres, technical methods, and his interactions with models.

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Fig. 1 ©Mateo Dela Rioja

How did your journey in photography begin and develop towards the erotic genre?

Mateo De La Rioja: You know, for millennia, as a species, we've been striving to create technologies that allow us to freeze time, to hold onto visual representations of specific moments, of certain occasions. We started by painting the shadows of lovers on a wall, and that drive has evolved to where we now have photography. To me, that’s almost like a magical superpower, isn't it? We’ve achieved this incredible ability to do what we’ve been trying to do for thousands of years.

And with any superpower, you think, ‘Okay, if I had this, what would I use it for? What moments would I want to revisit?’ For me, it was always clear, right from the start, that high on that list would be those private, intimate moments of eroticism. So, in a way, the idea was always there. The actual first opportunity to explore it came within the context of my personal relationship. My partner was truly foundational in allowing me to start that exploration.

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Fig 2. ©Mateo Dela Rioja

Can you describe your first session and any stereotypes or preconceptions you observed within yourself?

Mateo De La Rioja: It’s true that as a photographer, especially early on, you can get really wrapped up in the technicalities – aperture, ISO, lighting, the pose. Your attention is pulled towards getting the shot right. It’s easy to forget that there’s a human being in front of the camera, someone who might be feeing quite vulnerable. So, a key thing I learned is the importance of getting out of your own head a bit during a shoot, to really connect with the person you’re photographing.

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Fig 3. ©Mateo Dela Rioj

How do you help models feel confident when you photograph them?

Mateo De La Rioja: Professionalism is paramount. Clarity is key. Both the model and I need to have a solid understanding of the vision for the final images. I really value an open line of communication; I see these photo shoots as collaborations, a chance to bring different perspectives together. Practically speaking, showing them a couple of shots straight out of the camera during the shoot can be incredibly effective. When they see how it looks from my end, often something just clicks for them, and they go, ‘Oh, wow, okay!’ It builds trust and helps them connect with the process.

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Fig. 4 ©Mateo Dela Rioja

When preparing for a photo shoot, what steps do you typically take to create a mood?

Mateo De La Rioja: I like to have an exchange with the models beforehand. We’ll look at examples of aesthetics they’re drawn to, whether it's the setting, props, specific scenes, or an overall vibe. Again, it goes back to that collaborative approach. We bring different elements to the table and come to an agreement on how to best approach the shoot and achieve the mood we're aiming for.

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Fig. 5 ©Mateo Dela Rioja

Which artists and photographers do you find inspiring?

Mateo De La Rioja: These days, I find myself going back to the classics. I really enjoy the work of Nobuyoshi Araki, for example. Helmut Newton’s work is also a constant source of inspiration. And I also like to revisit photographers who inspired me early on.

Clayton Cubitt, especially his work for Nerve.com back in the late 2000s, was really foundational in sparking that initial interest and curiosity in me to explore this genre more deeply.

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Fig. 6 ©Mateo De La Rioja

Have you faced criticism and how have you grown as a result?

Mateo De La Rioja: I think it’s crucial to connect with the right audience when you're creating this type of work. It's important to understand and respect that not everybody wants to be exposed to certain types of photography, certain levels of eroticism, or nudity. What I’m most interested in is the movement towards less centralized media, where artists have more direct pathways to find the people who appreciate their specific vision. It’s about finding your tribe, so to speak.

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Fig. 7 ©Mateo Dela Rioja

Which camera do you typically use, and what aperture, filter, or settings do you favor for creating a specific mood or emotional effect in your photographs?

Mateo De La Rioja: I’m a bit of a Luddite when it comes to gear, actually. I primarily use a Canon Rebel camera, probably from around 2009, and a "nifty fifty" – a 50mm prime lens. Those two have been my main tools. I think that speaks to my overall approach, which is fairly minimalist and less focused on having the latest technology. It’s more about the connection and the moment.

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Fig. 8 ©Mateo Dela Rioja

Could you share your views on pornography?

Mateo De La Rioja: God, I'm always mistrustful of attempts to create rigid boundaries around what's acceptable or not, especially when trying to apply objective criteria to things that are inherently subjective. Often, what we find is that certain terms are imposed through various structures of power, and I think 'pornography' is a prime example of that. It's frequently used in a derogatory way, to dismiss work as unworthy, certainly not worthy of being considered art.

Ultimately, it often comes down to imposing one's views on others. I think the term itself needs to be reinvented because it carries so much negative baggage. It's more productive to talk about the intent, the artistry, and the connection within the work itself, rather than getting bogged down in labels that often serve to shut down conversation rather than open it up.

The Premium edition of the interview includes more explicit examples of Dela Rioja's photography

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